So it begins again. Carrie picked up Shane, so I didn't have to leave my practice early. I packed him up when I got home and we headed out to Day 1!
Shane's funny. The coach had everyone line up in front of him to show a move. Shane decided that he wanted to go up and stand next to the coach. He's not shy about raising his hand and volunteering explanations.
Shane looked good. He was more focused than last year. He wasn't perfect or near the best in the room, but I hardly expected that. He laughed instead of cried when he got tackled and attempted everything.
One thing I want to work on: Knowing when to focus on doing it fast and when to focus on doing it right.
There were several drills where the coach said, "This is NOT a race."
All Shane heard was "race." He was across the room shouting "First!" before most kids were halfway. The drive to compete and win is helpful in learning sports, so it's not a total wash (as long as that doesn't become the core of their being).
Shane paired up with his friend Ryan straight off. Friends are good! The boys are a similar physical match-up. Ryan (and his dad) are a little more serious whereas Shane.....well, Shane's not the best influence there.
Exhibit A: Getting ready to drill shots.
But after a brief discussion...
...the boys decide to drill their dance party moves instead.
They did do some work in the end. Ryan's shot is a lot better than Shane's. However, Shane did it!
This is something I always think about: How much should I push and instruct Shane at home? I know that I could work on his technique so that he would be much more successful at practice. Success tends to build confidence and lead to more fun and more success. However, I don't want to push Shane too much. We didn't get home until after 7:30 PM. That left Shane about an hour before bedtime. I believe kids need unstructured time and, honestly, I need breaks, too.
If Shane were to say, "Daddy, can we practice?" I'd jump on it. He hasn't, so I haven't. I want to keep it fun rather than burn him out from the get go.
Anyway, it was a good looking start to the season. I told Shane he did great and didn't mention anything to work on.
You are the best daddy! I'm so glad Shane is doing wrestling and has a friend in his group to wrestle with.
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